Why is it easy to miss what should be obvious?
Is there ANY way to prepare ourselves for a better response in this brand new year?
How can we break free from faithless prayers this year?
Some Questions to Consider
I sometimes wonder what it would take to rightly respond more consistently to life?
To challenges?
To the unexpected?
Or even the delays of our plans or dreams?
Is it a matter of knowing the right information?
Having the right background?
The right family or friends?
The right job?
Maybe the right inner disposition?
An Example to Consider
Here in Luke 1:5-20, there is a man that if anyone, you would think he would have responded rightly.
Although he had been praying a particular prayer for years, he was SO doubtful that it would actually be answered, when it was, he didn’t believe it! Even when an angel of the Lord stood in front of him and announced it!
Zechariah and his wife were “well along in years” and childless. He was a priest, she also a descendant of Aaron, both described as upright in the sight of God and blameless.
Wow! That is impressive!
And to think that even as great as they were, they were not immune to the longing for an answer to prayer- something their hearts yearned for but were powerless to make happen for themselves.
Then an angel of the Lord appeared to him, standing at the right side of the altar of incense. When Zechariah saw him, he was startled and was gripped with fear. But the angel said to him: “Do not be afraid, Zechariah; your prayer has been heard. Your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you are to call him John.
He will be a joy and delight to you, and many will rejoice because of his birth, for he will be great in the sight of the Lord. He is never to take wine or other fermented drink, and he will be filled with the Holy Spirit even before he is born. And, he will bring back many of the people of Israel to the Lord their God. And he will go on before the Lord, in the spirit and power of Elijah, to turn the hearts of the parents to their children and the disobedient to the wisdom of the righteous—to make ready a people prepared for the Lord.”
Their prayer had been heard and approved!! All those long years of waiting, along with the disgrace, (verse 25) were over!
A Poor Response to Consider
But strangely enough, even with a supernatural Being delivering the news, Zechariah was quite skeptical of the whole thing.
Luke 1:18-22 describes his reaction to the long-awaited news.
Zechariah asked the angel, “How can I be sure of this? I am an old man and my wife is well along in years.” The angel said to him, “I am Gabriel. I stand in the presence of God, and I have been sent to speak to you and to tell you this good news. And now you will be silent and not able to speak until the day this happens, because you did not believe my words, which will come true at their appointed time.”
Meanwhile, the people were waiting for Zechariah and wondering why he stayed so long in the temple. When he came out, he could not speak to them. They realized he had seen a vision in the temple, for he kept making signs to them but remained unable to speak.
Ok. Probably not the best response. Especially coming from a high ranking priest. But let’s examine why he may have responded in such a way.
What would make a faithful man pray for years and years about something, yet doubt it to be truly answered?
First, it had been a long time since he started praying.
And like so many other things, timing mattered to the probability of this happening, in a logical sense.
Secondly, if it hadn’t happened yet, skepticism, maybe even cynicism, was doubting it would EVER happen.
Thirdly, maybe a little bitterness had set into his emotional state.
Maybe it had already been TOO long, if not in his body, in his heart and mind. Maybe he was feeling God was “too little, too late” on this particular issue. His heart may have hardened against the Lord for denying this humble request.
He may have believed this blessing would be an automatic assumption for them, and when it wasn’t, even with their upright obedience to God and their high standing in the community, this disappointment left him feeling cheated. With so many other people, younger and less “deserving” than them, having had the pleasure of this blessing, maybe Zechariah was a little annoyed at getting his hopes up NOW.
Truths to Consider
Whatever the reason for his faithless response at the wonderful answer to his prayer, I think we can all relate. Why do WE ask in the first place, if we don’t believe He will grant our request? What makes us pray for years but deep down, have the feeling of doubt over the potential?
All it takes is a little too much time to pass, too much water to flow under that bridge, and we are just as likely to feel despondent, hopeless.
What can we learn from this temptation to pray faithlessly? How can we enter this new year ready to respond in faith, as we approach the ups and downs of life and commit them to prayer?
We can remember these everlasting truths-
1) Time is not an issue to God.
Therefore, the longer wait will not have any negative impact on the probability of our prayer being answered favorably. Our Savior is the maker and controller of all things, including time. He is All-Powerful.
2) Ability is not an issue for God.
He is fully knowledgeable on what needs to happen and how to make it happen. When He can create life, something out of nothing, and raise the dead to life, what could be beyond His resources? He is All-Knowing.
3) His favor toward us is not an issue.
He has already proven His love to us. If He sent His Son to die for us while we were yet sinners, won’t He also give to us graciously in this life? He is All-Loving. Romans 5:8,
But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Because God is All-powerful, All-Knowing, and All-Loving, we can pray with one aspect that should never wane- hope! These three attributes of the Lord are game-changers over any and all circumstances! They trump every issue that grieves us!
Because God is All-powerful, All-Knowing, and All-Loving, we can pray with one aspect that should never wane- hope! Share on XAn Application to Consider
THAT is what makes our prayers full of faith! THAT is why we will not give way to doubt over what we petition our God for!
I remember just three years ago, prayers I had been praying for our sons …….for years. In my mind, there was no way I saw how God was going to rectify their two different situations.
No way, no how.
Too much time had passed. Too much water under the bridge…..
Even being the “planner” and “fixer” that I am, I could not see a way through. In spite of all that, I just threw my hands up, somewhat sarcastically at times I will admit, and I prayed past where I could see any glimpse of possibility.
And you want to know why? Because I had hope.
Hope propelled my prayers past where my mind could reason or my heart see any potential.
Hope propelled my prayers past where my mind could reason or my heart see any potential. Share on XI KNEW my God was All-Powerful, not bound by any means of our circumstances.
Also, I KNEW He was All-Knowing, absolutely able to see a way through our mess.
Finally, I KNEW He was All-Loving, totally committed to our good as it fit into His kingdom plan. Therefore, hope kept my prayers from being faithless that we would EVER see a good outcome.
A Final Thought to Consider
Today, three years later, both those situations are totally changed for the better. I still can’t figure out how it happened or what exactly solved the problems.
But God……….
That is how to break free from faithless prayers as you enter this new year. The hope of one day……”But God”…
Until that day, let hope fill your prayers with the faith to believe, past where you can stand and dream.
Valerie Sisco says
Hi Gretchen,
I’m visiting from Coffee for your Heart today – -nice to meet you! Oh I love your words about prayer, since it’s such a mysterious process between us and God, isn’t it? I was encouraged to read that your prayers were effectual, after three years of praying, wondering how God could even be at work in them. I find myself in a similar three-year prayer journey and know it is only God that move and remove the obstacles. Thank you for these words and I look forward to reading your thoughts in the future! 🙂
Gretchen Fleming says
Thank you Valerie! It is a refining work when we have to continue long with certain prayers. I found that God did a work in me as much as I was wanting Him to do a work for me. Thanks for stopping by!
Christin Baker says
Amen and amen! Gretchen, this is such a powerful post. I love how you tied in the story of Zechariah to our own inward struggles with doubt. But God is not bound by time, but the Creator of it! Praise be to our All-powerful, All-Knowing, and All-Loving, eternal Father, who gives us hope in the midst of impossible circumstances! So glad to hear God moved in your situation–He is so good! Blessings to you and your family!
Gretchen Fleming says
Thanks so much Christin and your post on finding refreshment for our souls was fabulous! http://garmentsofsplendor.com/four-ways-bring-revival-soul/ is a blessing to read:)
Cheryl Gerou says
I’m visiting you from Thought-Provoking-Thursday. What a good reminder. This made me think of prayers in my heart that seem hopeless because it has been too long and I am impatient. It seems in our focus on what we want God to do we forget who he is and what he is able to do. Yes “but God”, I must wait for hm. Thank you. May your soul be refreshed as you look expectantly for what God will do in answer to your prayers.
Gretchen Fleming says
Thank you for stopping by Cheryl! I try to remind myself often that at any moment, “But God…” could interrupt my day in a profound way. Blessings to you this Thursday:)
Horace Williams Jr. says
I have been blessed by my visit here today. Having just published a book on prayer, I had to read your post Gretchen. Such wonderful words of encouragement and hope. I am a “serial” planner myself, so I can relate to the “too much time has passed, etc.” It makes a lot of sense why God gave me such an unexpected word for 2017. I will trust Him will my whole heart ; not just in my head, but I want to live that way as well. I will be sharing your post today. I am excited to see what God is going to do this year beyond what I can ask or think. Thank you for sharing your insights and inspiration. May God bless you in all your endeavors in 2017.
Gretchen Fleming says
Thank you so much Horace for your kind words and for sharing my post:) I’m so glad it was helpful to you, especially considering prayer was a recent topic used in your book. Thanks for stopping by and happy new year!
bethany mcilrath says
Gretchen, this is so helpful. I had not thought much about this issue. Thank you for the Biblical example and wise insight. I’m grateful for your testimony to God’s faithfulness. Strengths me in hope for my own prayers at risk of faithlessness!
Gretchen Fleming says
My pleasure Bethany and thank you for stopping by:)
Starla Jimenez says
Thank you for sharing this post over at the Grace & Truth Link Up Party!
Gretchen Fleming says
Glad to be there! Blessings to you Starla:)
Crystal says
Gretchin, this is so full of wisdom! Hope is so key to our prayers, even if they are only voiced in our mind. Your experience resonated with me because I too have had plenty of experiences where I have prayed for something or someone in my mind and not necessarily spoke out loud. Even in this, God has honored the prayers. Rarely in my timeframe and sometimes within moments of uttering. I’m a firm believer that our faith is made so much deeper and stronger when we keep an accounting of these times because even in the waiting period, there are lessons to learn.
Gretchen Fleming says
Absolutely Crystal. So many lessons to learn! I stay encouraged by the fact that God does not waste any trial or season. He uses it ALL! Thanks for stopping by Crystal ?
Lori Schumaker says
Hi Beautiful! the word “skeptic” grabbed my attention. I had an incredible conversation with another sweet blogger just yesterday where I know God was speaking through her to me. It was about praying with AUTHORITY. I think I can be whiny when I pray on my own behalf. And in that lives a bit of skepticism. Aha moments for sure! Thanks, friend, for being the voice of Christ for me!
Hugs,
Lori
Gretchen Fleming says
Hey there Lori! Yes it is uncomfortable when I realize how skeptical or fearful I can be as I pray. I have often thought of the irony of wringing my hands in anxiety yet I am praying. God is teaching me much about myself and it offers me such hope:) There is so much to learn after we are saved isn’t there? Thank goodness He does not leave us as we are! Blessings friend:)
Joanne Scantlebury says
Hi Gretchen,
His particular article really spoke to me.
I’ve a tendency to give up rather quickly when it comes to prayers being answered. I fact I haven’t prayed for a while because of stubbornness, .
I found your email in my inbox, and don’t remember chafing signed up for it, maybe a friend did it for me, but they have been really heart warming for me, so a blessing indeed.
Thank you for your fabulous work.
Joanne???
Gretchen Fleming says
Well I am so glad you enjoyed this post Joanne and had it in your email inbox:) Please stop by again and blessings to you!
Joanne Scantlebury says
Oops a few spelling mistakes in that post, chafing is supposed to be “signing ” and his is “this”??
Thanks Joanne